I know many of you never got signs and just married or started a fam with whoever. But don't worry it's fine. Heaven knows your situation and is with you
Heaven wants you to devote yourself to your family just the same as it wants one of the queens to devote her life to a fam with me. It is the best choice for them. Just like staying with the other parent of your kid and trying to make it work for the kid is the best choice for you. It will earn you most spirit dollars
Yeah it's hard and not nice and not what you want and there's all kinds of temptations pulling you away and wishing it coulda been better with someone else and what if
But if you ask those kinda questions you just miss out on appreciating and getting the most out of your destiny. Your destiny is your family now and it was heaven's will for you all along in this lifetime. You have created a new person in the world so it is now your duty to parent that person for the rest of your life and look after their other parent
Even if your kid's other parent passes away early you gotta stay loyal to their memory so the kid knows you love them. If you fall in love with another person it will hurt the kid. You gotta always love their mum or dad even if they pass away as that kid will only ever have one mum or dad so finding a new one after they pass away is unfaithful to your kid
Say your kid passes away. Your wife gave nine months of her life to that baby for you. Then you both gave however many years of time energy and love raising that kid
Your spouse may no longer look their best. They may also depend on you for financial and emotional support. You know them so well. You've bonded. I'm sure you depend on them as well in ways
If it's more one sided it just means they need you more than you need them so you should be like El and look after them the way El looks after you. They're your fam now. You gotta stay loyal to them the rest of your life. Try raising a new kid with them again by all means if you still want a fam. But don't go looking elsewhere. That person is now your fam and destiny for life
Say life pulls you in different directions. You have jobs hobbies relationships and freedoms you wanna pursue but the other person is tying you down. Getting in your way
Fact is yeah marriage is a bond. A family tie. It does hold you back from doing lots of things. You just have to forget those things and accept the life you've got and make the most of it. As caring for a spouse and/or kid is a good virtuous deed that will earn you soul dollars
There will always be something else and someone else to pull you away. Even from the supposedly perfect partner. But all of it is fool's gold. No person is fool's gold. Just the belief that they will be the perfect person worth cheating for is the fool's gold
So don't let the fool's gold trick you. The real gold is always virtue. It don't matter who your spouse is what job you do or where you live. The gold in your life is the virtue of loyalty to your family. That is what will earn you soul dollars
It don't matter who you're loyal to as everyone is heaven's creation and loved by heaven. So being loyal to anyone in love will earn you the same amount of spirit dollars
Throwing away a less attractive spouse for a more beautiful one is like leaving a disabled baby at an orphanage. It is not a virtue and won't please heaven
Say the divorce is mutual. They don't depend on you emotionally or financially. You don't depend on them and you have no kids. Is it alright to leave each other then?
If it's what you both truly want and both feel called away to new lives with signs then yes. But it should be done with the intention to live virtuously and serve heaven
Not to go wild and sleep around and do whatever you please. Ask yourselves why someone else and not them? Is it serving heaven or just your own preferences?
Remember that consent doesn't make something okay. Even if you both mutually agree to divorce and get your party years back. It could just be the same as two people mutually agreeing to lust or cheat. Consent don't make it virtuous. As people often consent to sin. So if you do divorce divorce for the right reasons with heaven's blessing
Even if you both feel like you dislike each other and just want something else. A different life with someone else. All running wildly for your own pleasure and freedom will do is plant the seeds of selfishness and disloyalty in both your hearts which you will carry into the afterlife like a chain on your souls. It will not please heaven or be good for your spirits
By staying together you help each other through all kinds of problems which helps your spirit and theirs grow more virtuous and heavenly and earns you spirit dollars
So stay as a married couple for life if possible. As loyalty in love is always a good thing in heaven's eyes. No matter who it is. So you know you can't go wrong with it
Instead of divorcing learn more about each other appreciate each other and try to make it work. You can share fun moments together and life is not about loving people you fancy for pleausre. That's what animals do
Life is about being as virtuous as you can in every way possible before you die. Your goal is not to break free and have all the fun and experiences and pleasure you can. That's the animal in you wishing for selfish joys
Your goal is to please heaven by being virtuous and a big virtue in life is loyalty to family. In marriage you swear a vow till death separates you. That's for a reason. It's because loyalty is a virtue you get rewarded for in the afterlife. Also you get to reunite with their soul in heaven in one of various ways. So take it seriously. Don't divorce under any circumstances
Jesus says the only reason you should divorce is if they abandon you for someone else. So if they cheat with someone and don't apologise - or they leave and don't come back or get in contact again and try to fix things - for a year and a day - then they abandoned you. You will then be spiritually divorced so can start a new fam with someone else
If anything happens to your kid or sibling or spouse in mysterious circumstances you will be implicated as you had something selfish and sinful to gain from it. You may get thoughts like that if you contemplate divorce and feel bitter about your vows. So don't contemplate it. Just embrace your marriage and try to make it work. That is what heaven wants
Say you want out but they don't so you sabbotage your relationship and drive them away on purpose just so you can be free to chase your pleasures in life. You may get your divorce that way but all that sin will be on you sadly to carry with you to the judgement court of heaven
What if it's just boyfriend and girlfriend? You should only be thinking of getting married building a life and raising a fam together as a team. You shouldn't kiss before the wedding or spend the night if you don't intend to raise a fam. You should only spend the night once a year to start your fam and not just for pleasure. But you should live together and depend on each other as families do
I had two girlfriends in the past. I was loyal to both. But when we took a break and I spoke to them again they both refused to get back with me. So technically they left me as I was still willing to get back with them
Probably it was because I treated them badly by saying lots of unkind things in a grumbly voice. It was with the intention to improve our relationship by fault finding. But I went about it the wrong way and impatiently so that is why they turned away from me. I'm sorry for that
If we both had relationship education by reading letters like this we coulda made wise choices and a good go of it from the start. But because we never had any such education we just went into the relationship blindly so it failed
I was called by the Don into solitude to serve heaven as a monk in private for years and was completely free of all relationships before October 22. Then a series of signs from heaven told me to devote my life to one of two queens if they'll have me
I have done as heaven asked so I'm alright. But both queens have been reluctant till now. Hopefully this letter will help them see it's the right thing to do
Like Stella and Elly everyone reading this is free to take this advice or leave it. I'm just telling you what will earn you most spirit dollars for the afterlife
Going after new romances with people you fancy is lust when you already have a kid to look after. Lust is a sin so will not earn you spirit dollars
You should be celibate ideally. No one should be using romance for pleasure or basing their lives on dating new people. You gotta commit
I said the cute professor is just a guy. He's actually married so off limits in heaven's eyes as it is. But if he wasn't off limits and Stella was not chosen as queen by signs then yeah he would make as good a hubby for her as any choice
It is only because she has been chosen as holy land queen with signs that she has to be so strict about who she picks. Anyone else can pick anyone unless they see signs. Anyone who hasn't yet married should stay celibate and look for signs and pray to heaven and choose who heaven wants
But anyone who already picked without signs should devote themselves to who they already have as that is now what heaven wants
Those who already picked and stay devoted will get the same rewards in heaven as those who pick with signs and stay devoted. Loyalty is the key virtue here. It is the same for all of us
Just because you get signs don't mean your loveship will be easy. Look at me and Stella. We're like chalk and cheese. Total opposites. She's not my dream girl who I would pick. So don't think I got it better or easier than you. Our relationship will be just as difficult as yours
We will have to stay together and devote ourselves to our kids just the same as you. Just the same as someone who picked without signs. Your kids are your destiny now just the same as my fam with Stella or Elly will be mine. It won't be better just different
Say you already got married three times and have kids with three partners now. Life is hard for you as you gotta try now to raise three families and explain to them how you wasn't loyal but will do your best now for all of them
It will be hard because each one you see will make the other feel less loved and you feel more guilty and tired. But if you're honest and tell them you were disloyal and you're sorry and you don't start anymore fams and you do your best equally for all three spouses and sets of kids then your families and heaven will be pleased
For anyone who has no fam yet or just one. See how it is wise to focus on just one fam from the start. As disloyalty is displeasing to your spouse and your kids and the community and to heaven
So I hope this helps everyone see we're all in the same boat here. If you picked with signs or you didn't. If you were loyal in the past or you wasn't. Doesn't matter. You didn't know
All that matters is your loyalty and devotion now you do know. Now you see the right way. The holy way and it is what will be most pleasing to your fam and heaven and every righteous person who also walks the way
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